Here I should tell something about myself? Okay, I'm a ladyboy lover and I'm living a beautiful love story with my Ladyboy Girlfriend. My name is Andrea (in my country it is a male name), I'm a man coming from a small town in the northern Italy.
After many round trips, travelling here and there in Asia, I finally moved for good in the beautiful archipelago of the Philippines. Love was among the main reasons. I first met my girlfriend online on the internet, and now we living together in Manila as a couple.
Are you also attracted by the beauty of Asian Transgender?
Hi there! I made this blog mainly for those men like me who are attracted to Third Sex Women from Asia, as they call them. Better to say, the transsexuals ladies known as Ladyboys. If you willing to follow my path, I hope on my blog you can find some useful insights about dating ladyboys and a preview of what awaits you. Yes, it is mostly aimed to help out my fellow ladyboy lovers, but not exclusively. More of that below.
Why am I doing this blog?
Okay... I know it, I'm probably one of the worst bloggers (am I ?), my English is embarrassing at times, but I hope you will give more importance to my stories. Actually, my non-fluent English didn't prevent me from turning my dreams into reality. If you have my same difficulty, no worries, that's the least of your problems 🙂
So, why am I doing this blog? Among the many other reasons I could tell, I wish to start by saying that when I figured out years ago that the best partner in life for me was having a ladyboy girlfriend, I couldn't find anything on the Internet good enough.
What do I mean? I was looking for the answers to all my questions and insecurities, and because I never been in Asia that time. I'm someone who always studies the lesson before to put it into practice. That's where I met the first problem; there were just a couple of decent blogs / websites on the topic with useful and interesting information. All the rest you can find on the internet when the topic is "Ladyboys" was all about porn and prostitution. And at present day, the situation hasn't changed that much. Just Google some keywords and see it by yourself.
Love Quest & Meeting New Friends
Well, the good new is, guess what? The author of one those nice ladyboy blogs is today a friend of mine (the blonde guy in the pic on the right side, more about that at the end). Today I have friends who read my blog that come over Manila to meet their ladyboy girlfriends, some are living here for good, and other loves to travel around the Philippines and Asia as I do.
However, as you can picturing, I had to become the master of myself. Moving my steps alone, get my direct experience and learn from my mistakes while travelling at the discovery of Asia and dating ladyboys.
Transsexual Ladies are humans, not an object of pleasure
There is one thing that you can sense while reading the articles of my blog. I'm not someone merely after a sexual fantasy as many do. I recognised that having a TS GF was the best for me. Then, I was really looking for love on every date. And I'm now one of the luckiest to have found a beautiful good heart of Filipina TS, and I'm never been happier in my life. And today I'm living my dream in Asia, finally!
The con side, when you have a special girlfriend as mine, you know, is not the easiest of the love relationship. Because of public opinions, social battles and barriers to face. I hope my little contribution can open a bit people's mind, turning them more respectful for the human being, as long as he or she is a genuine person.
Last and not the less important, for those men who would like to engage in a long term love story with a ladyboy, but are afraid of what people could say about them. So, with this blog, I walk you through the escalations of my experiences, and helping you out to face the most typical concerns, and win your insecurities.
I know the feelings, I've been there just like you, but I've break free, and now happy with who I like and love.
Update Dec 2015: I've promised to add something more about my story, currently you can find something on my new blog: My transsexuals girlfriend dot-com
I know is not what you were expecting, so next updates I'll write a more in topic story of myself exclusive to Asian transgender very soon ! Word of ex-boy scout 🙂
About Me & my Ladyboy Girlfriend
Update Oct 2016 - Today I'm a web entrepreneur and as they call it, digital nomad. I never thought I would become a blogger when I was younger, but today what was just a hobby of the past became my job. More motivation to pursue this path came out when I met my first ladyboy girlfriend online (on the internet) years ago. I find out that having a mobile online job was the best deal for me to move Around Asia and live there.
I'm lucky for having a Ladyboy girlfriend with a decent job knowing the difficulties these ladies have to face in the work market. She is working as a sales lady in a Mall here in Manila, and she is a very independent hard working person. Actually, I do admire her not only because she left her family in the province of Visayas ten years ago and started to live alone here in Manila. But also because she has never been into sex work or drugs or any compromising activity.
That's made me realise that all the bad stereotypes about the transgender and transsexual community here in Asia are just one face of the coin. Before to meet my current lb GF, I've met plenty of decent ladyboys living a decent ordinary life as much as you do.
About ladyboy travel date blog?
It is not a mere translation of my Italian blogs; I'm also adding new things I learned, experiences and considerations matured till today. The outcome of my latest travelling experience in Asia, and observations while discovering in first person the culture, meeting new friends, people, visiting its amazing lands. It was in 2015, after a series of round trips, that I moved to Manila, where is stay about 6-9 months a year.
Finding a ladyboy girlfriend from Asia
Before to meet my sweet ladyboy girlfriend, Roxy, I've been dating different types of Asian TS, with who I shared kind and also sad memories.
Yes, when you look for love and a stable long-term relationship, the difficult part it is not finding a pretty ladyboy girlfriend, but your match. Especially when you are coming from a different society and culture. Two different mentalities, educations, living standards and so on, it's not always easy to deal with and work out all the times.
Then, my biggest concern was finding a shortcut to optimise my time and resources and focus possible matches. But how?
The Revolution of Modern Internet Resources
What has helped me a lot to find finally the girl of my dreams has been The Internet Dating. Like it or not, it's a powerful tool, and I'm so thankful to have this opportunity in this years! Especially when I think at those times where people were writing paper love letters delivered in a month! WoW, I feel blessed being born in this technological era.
Men who like to date Asian trans-women
Ah! For the record, that's me in the above pics, with some of my friends taken in Manila years ago. The blonde westerner guy look familiar? And the girls? Of course, are all ladyboys from the Philippines, and the blodie is Maki's (the girl in the video gallery on my site) boyfriend from France, Cyril.
Somehow I also got Involved in various activities for transgender equality rights with them and educating people to understand the meaning of gender identity & sexual orientation. And of course, they are all in a romantic love relationship with their ladyboy girlfriend s and boyfriends. You can think of us as a team pioneers, that in our little want to give a contribute and try to change something in better 🙂
Why Ladyboy Travel Date?
I know it sounds a bit too Keyword based, but that was the combinations of words I found that, more or less, fits the intentions of this blog. It's mainly addressed to westerner guys living thousands of miles away from Asia.
For the record, ladyboy is just the international term to address transgender and transsexuals from Asia. It's maybe not the right political term to employ, but it makes clear the topic easier, just to make it simple for everyone.
Are you a ladyboy lover like me? A fan of the Asian culture and exotic beauty and attracted to trans women? If so, you'll be travelling to Asia sooner or later. And if you never been in countries like Philippines and Thailand, and all those located in South East Asia, I will try my best to give you a preview with
- Valuable dating tips
- Travel advice
- My personal experience explained at the best I know through my blog
- Answer to your question on emails or comments on my blog
Travelling has changed me into a better person
Beyond dating matters, travelling in Asia is an awesomely unique experience! It changes you forever, and you'll not look at the world with same eyes after that. It made me grow a lot, emancipated, enriched, and happier. Living somewhere in Asia as I do, might be a good choice for many or a life experience worthy at least once. If you feel to follow my path, yes, it takes some time to organise yourself, but doing so, it is nothing more than a matter of will! I've found my happiness at the other side of the globe, and if you are still unhappy, maybe you should ask yourself why!
I hope with my personal observations and experiences will make it easier for you to come up with what you like and want.
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